Sunday Stumpers 1) Do you find yourself at a crossroads at this point in time? Yes. I finally know what I want and now I'm struggling with how to get it. 2) When making a decision, how much thought do you put into it? Oh, I'm such a thinker and worrier. I go overboard in both departments. 3) Was there a single moment in time that brought everything into focus for you? What was it? It really happened over time, didn't hit me all at once. 4) Do the people who mean the most to you know how you feel? Yes, I hope they do. I strive to tell them. 5) Have I told you lately that I love you? No, not for a while... Sunday Op-Ed 1. Porn What is a career that pays well, but can ruin the rest of your life? 2. Gay Bars Where can you find the almost perfect man? 3. Drool What is the that cold thing against my cheek on my pillow? EWWW!